With loving parents, there's nothing to worry about with your baby.
Pregnancy is a huge psychological, physical, and emotional change that obviously affects the relationship between couples.
The expectant mother is now carrying a new life , while the expectant father is fascinated, anxious, or curious about this "nesting instinct." As the baby grows, the intimacy between the two will gradually change. From one pregnancy to another, the bond of love will adjust with the psychological and physical feelings brought about by pregnancy, and their sex life will also be affected by these changes.
Intimacy will not harm the baby because the baby is secure in the womb and protected by amniotic fluid. Unless otherwise advised by a doctor (especially due to the risk of premature birth), from a technical standpoint, maintaining sexual activity until delivery is perfectly feasible.
However, every couple is different , and they will view their nine months of intimacy based on their own background and cultural influences. There are no fixed rules, only physiological and psychological realities, and understanding them brings more peace of mind.
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First Pregnancy: Love is Redefined, Passion Diminishes Slightly
The early stages of pregnancy are a major change. With the rapid secretion of hormones, expectant mothers' bodies react to the new state to varying degrees, accompanied by mild discomfort (nausea, headaches, fatigue, irritability, etc.), which are not conducive to a romantic atmosphere.
It's normal for expectant mothers to focus on the changes inside their bodies. They also need to readjust to their bodies as they are no longer exactly the same. Losing familiar sensations, expectant mothers may become fully immersed in pregnancy, alternating between immense happiness and anxiety.
Feelings of loneliness are common. Sometimes expectant mothers no longer recognize themselves, and their partners don't know how to cope. Therefore, this period must be navigated together with love, communication, and understanding, allowing each other to find balance.
Don't worry if the passion seems to have faded ; this pause caused by psychological reasons is only temporary and doesn't preclude touching or tenderness. Some couples even engage in particularly deep sexual activity when the psychological discomfort isn't severe and the expectant mother feels confident in her new, fuller figure.
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Second Pregnancy: The Joy of Peace and Release
In the fourth or sixth month of pregnancy, when hormone secretion finally stabilizes, the minor problems of the previous months disappear, the expectant mother's body becomes more rounded, and the expectant parents feel at ease about the progress of the pregnancy... Daily life returns to normal.
This is often considered the "honeymoon period," including sexual activity. Psychological barriers no longer hinder a woman's libido, and improved blood flow to the reproductive areas during pregnancy naturally increases libido... Some women even experience a stronger libido during their second pregnancy.
Expectant fathers may also have their own questions , and during this period they may experience symptoms of "feeling pregnant": weight gain, back pain, etc. Open communication becomes important again, and touch and affection help maintain and rekindle intimacy, especially when the baby starts to move noticeably.
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Third Pregnancy: Increased Sensory Acuity
The final weeks before the baby's arrival are a time of significant preparation for couples. The future gradually takes shape: attending prenatal classes, choosing a name, decorating the nursery, and even changing cars or moving.
Couples are closer than ever during this time, focused on childbirth. While some may feel tired, this doesn't mean they have to completely abandon intimacy. Many couples discover new ways to cope with the physical limitations brought on by the baby's growth during this period.
The sensory and sensual aspects of massage , for example, can replace potentially uncomfortable traditional sex with a touch of creativity. Love, tenderness, and desire expressed through touch and physical intimacy are also incredibly moving, sometimes especially fitting for the final moments before a baby's arrival. In addition to psychological and emotional connection, maintaining physical contact is also important. Every couple can find their own way to do it.
